Submission enthrones

SUBMISSION ENTHRONES.

Most women wonder what the root of their husband being obstinate is. She can't figure out why the man always feels the need to debase  her at every opportunity. Some woman will think village people are out to get them. 😁 village people ke! 🙄

To make matters worse, the so called women are equal to men saga is destroying homes. Wait oh!  what makes you think that the home should be ruled by you and your husband with equal authority when in your office there is a boss. Why are you stubborn dear woman. Submission doesn't make you a fool to any man rather it makes you rule.

A lady asked me: "are we not all the same in the eyes of God? " Madam please oh, understand that we are the same in the eyes of God but in the eyes of marriage, we are not. He is the head while you are the spare head. If you can't submit, please my sister don't marry.

A word I would say is enough for the wife but a girl friend material favoured to get married will not listen, be wise oh

Joy in your home and life is in your hand oh wife. When Satan tried to drag authority, even God as merciful as he is,  retire the guy before retirement age 😂. Please oh don't allow your husband to retire you please submit.

Submission make you an asset, makes you glow in his eyes and whether you call him a king or not, submission builds your husband a kingdom where he will always see the need to please you. Until you submit, he will never commit to you.

Note: every woman is enthrone by submission but not withstanding, if you fall for and marry a fool, no amount of submission or adamancy will enthrone you. Because the man go even see submissiveness as insult. 🤔

If you want your husband to love, respect and adore you, you must recognise his authority. Am sorry oh, na so Baba God talk am.

1 Corinthians  11:3  But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

If he sees you as a rival, he will treat you as an opponent. Be wise ladies because the head ache that will come from it, no aspirin can cure it. A submissive wife is one that the husband will brag about.

Husbands you are not left out of this, please stop being lazy, get your self out of the couch and start to do your duty of loving that woman because 90 percent of divorce is as a result of husband not understanding that their wives have and live to be loved.

Love your wife, she glows and grows but abandon and push her to the curb, she withers and dies. Women are wonderful creature and loving them God's way is in your best interest. 

Any man that treats his wife as a done project which needs no follow up pruning with love and care, bathing with romantic gestures and gift will never have peace. And I tell you, he will be divorced as quickly as he got married.

By:
I. MACPHERSON 

HEAVEN HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES

For so long I have heard this statement:
"Heaven Help Those Who Help Themselves" but considered it to be a ficticious statement simply because the bible never says so.

But when I took a precocious look at this statement and apply it to life issues,  I discovered it is one of the best statement I have ever heard, because it tends to solve life issues if it can be applied by individuals, groups, organizations, states or countries.

Just the way it is said; that any truth without an evidence is not worth being a truth. So I can boldly tell anyone including you that this statement "Heaven Help Those Who Help Themselves" is a true statement because it is backed up with different evidence.

This statement I think is one of the solution to the problem Africa is facing today if (condition) they can apply it and abide by it.

Now let's analyse this statement and it's application:

HEAVEN (GOD) HELP THOSE(YOU) WHO HELP THEMSELVES(YOU)

From the above, you will discover the word "YOU"  appear twice, which means for Heaven (God) to interfere in earthly(your) matters, you have to first take responsibility(help) for yourself.

If life's equation is hundred percent, you have to solve sixty percent yourself and leave forty percent  for God. This means you have more work to do for Heaven to help you.

This statement I think is what Americans applied that got them where they are today. Understand that America was not built by the Government alone, but by every citizen(individuals) of the country who took responsibility(help) for themselves.

 This shows the important of Unity because when two or more persons agree to do a thing, it prospers because they are united.

The reason an iron chain is strong is simply  because it was made from round interconnected centers.( This shows the power of unity)

"HEAVEN HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES"
requires unity for it to work for any country, organization, state or groups.

For the bible says:

                 Ecclesiastes 4:9 KJV
 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

                     Amos 3:3 KJV
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Waiting for Heaven (God) to help you when you haven't helped yourself is like a student waiting to pass an examination he or she is not prepared for. Definitely the student will fail the examination, because he or she  never helped his or her self through preparation.

So, for you to receive God's(Heaven) help as an individual, organization, state or country, you have to first play your sixty percent role by taking responsibility for yourself.

Decide what to do and do it well  (play your role in life) and God will do the remaining forty percent.

THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN HELP YOU IS "YOURSELF" AND "GOD". (I .Mac~Jungle On Campus).

Author: Williams E A Peter

the twenty first century gods

MODERN DAY gODS

In the world today, and human being human will always seek a god figure to pay homage to OR serve. This we do consciously or unconsciously. This will then beg the question: who are gods or what are they?

gods are either living beings - dead or alive,  beings of myths etc. They receive from you extreme adoration, awe, reverence, worship, praise, keen followup, and dictate to a very large extent what you wear, the way you speak and act,  and in general the way you live. Without doubt, that person is  a god to you. 

In this modern days, idolatry is the order of the day where man has fallen to an extent of making a fellow man his or her god. Although it happened in ancient time but this day is at the hedge. In this right up, I will be looking at two famous idols and gods worship of our present time. They are

1: the clergy gods (pastor)

2: movie/music stars 

The two above listed are celebrities worshiped in the class of gods. They practically order the course and behavioural pattern of their fans. Their influence on their fans is so powerful that at their say,  they can stair unrest and riotous behaviours

These men (clergy) among whom ninety percent rose from the slum to stardom has congregations that are very massive and on a working day,  they can fill up a stadium to the brim and over pouring. Their voices have been taught to be the voice of God to the people so people do at their command.

Their influence on their congregation and even members not in their congregation is so much so that words will fail us to properly explain it, eg the Pope and several Pentecostal pastors.

I know of congestion where dark skinned brothers are now patronising bleaching mechanism simply because their head pastor, their father in the lord, their so called spiritual head is fair in complexion. 

I know of others who's members and pastors have abdicated their God given speech pattern with the craving to talk like their head pastor or one clergy some where.

I read a story about people who heard a man of God was coming into two,  the people took their sick and dead laid the by the road side the man was to travel.
These man have so much place them selves in a way that people can't help but serve them.  It's as though these men are living in God's parlor why their members living outside God's gate.

On the part of the movie/music stars, ninety percent are very bag influence and have become tools that the system of this world uses to control those caught in the net of these celebrities.

Ninety percent songs released by these celebrities, promotes violence on female, sexual indecency, drug experimentation, focus on immorality and gangsterism. 

These celebrities have secret lives but disguise their crazy career promoting acts as their main life style and people are copying and living it to their own down fall and undoing. The more they showoff, the more you are hooked, why?  This is because psychologically and in the fans subconscious they are high on the fact that they can become those celeb they envy.

The only place not tattooed on their body is their intestines. They give a new definition to materialism with their flashy life and heavy chains on their necks.

These celebrities are now employed by product companies or advertising firm to have a new product trend quickly. All they need to do is give that expensive shirt to Beyonce or Ariana Grande to wear and the sales begins. 

Just as Christians want to be like Jesus and we were told by Jesus to emulate him, so also the fans of these celebrities want to be like them. A lady spent huge amount of dollars and series of surgical sections performed on her just for her to look like Meghan markle.

People sleep outside for days just to see, talk or take a photo shot with a celebrity. Are these not gods? There are people glued to their cellphone because they want to be the first to catch the latest tweet or post by Beyonce, Rhianna, Britney Spears,

According to the Zeus mythology, the gods that is Zeus and his fellow gods thrive stronger when worshiped although I don't know how true that is. We get to see the same play out in the life of  these new age gods, that is pastor's, movies and music celebrities. The system is built to make them thrive in Wealth and materialism as their worship (fame)  increases. While those who worship and follow them remain on their knees.

These celebrities have so much built themselves up in people they will throw decorum to the wind if anyone talks ill of their gods (celebrities).

These two gods itemized, have a tool of influence over their follows. Beautifully enough, each god rose to stardom due to different specific uniqueness they bring to the play.

Ways to know if you are one of the worshipers of human gods 

1: what and who structures your fashion sense?
2: at the say so of the above personality, what extent would you go?
3: what extent will you go to defend them?
4: do you feel the need to serve them or serving them is serving a higher purpose?
5: why did you get a tattoo or other body piercing.
6: who would you give you right hand to see,  Jesus or beyonce.

TO BE CONTINUED

BY. I. MACPHERSON 

AMINA'S TEARS

AMINA'S TEARS 

I am going on a journey I have never been Going to a place I have never seen, scared by what the unknown holds for me Hunted by the clutches of traditions that once bent my mother's knees.

Will I be allowed the courtesy of a last meal, the privilege of my own will? But they just stared as if I am acting a script. Although louder by the minute was my screams against a tradition that seeks the core of my being.

All eyes on me are of those who have been snared emotionless by a custom which has eaten, them from within and their voice silent by society.

Please I am still a teen who has a lot to see, Places to be,  friends to make and enemies too. But they stared as I was led as a lamb to be bled, All because tradition said, to him I must wed. Please comply don't shame our family parents said.

They forget that tradition keeps us focus on the past. They forget that traditions where drawn based on circumstances of old which is no more applicable.

Mama said nothing because in her days, at a much younger age she went through the same. with my pain she can relate Because in her memory, it is like an experience of yesterday. But because history is written on a tablet of Stone no one can erase, I am doom to hang by the same rope of tradition and the same tree of culture others before me dangled from.

Mama's only consolation was "Time heals all wounds" but must I be a victim of it too? I don't want this wound because I might not be strong enough to bear the hideous scar it leaves. Not all scars fades and this is a scar made on a young girl's soul, A scar inflated to cripple womanhood.

To my parents He promised my virginity he won't take until I come age, as if that makes it ok. But that night, like biblical river Nile, My blood turned the white sheet red as he moaned with smiles On his old wrinkled face , I am ashamed For without my consent i have been taken by my father's mate

I showered trying to scrub him off me but every night, he keeps coming back to further dampen my sorrow and take away sleep from my night, his hands are imprinted deep in my soul, that water can not pacify, even the best of soaps were of no help.

I never knew the eyes could run out of tears until mine stopped flowing. How do I speak my pain to those too deaf to listen? Too blinded by the old ways of their ancestors to see me.

I am Amina;

Crying out with a silent but loud voice. Tradition has sold me off into slavery. I am she who has fallen prey butchery of tradition. to the deepest grief, Tradition  has turned my sleep into death, my dream into nightmares. Tradition took my voice when he offered me to a life of wilderness.

I am Amina crying for help

Author: I. Eddyson

MR/MRS RIGHT DELUSION

MR/MRS RIGHT NOT ALWAYS LIKE THE MOVIES.

Over the years, spanning into decades; animated movies, dramas (movies) and society has painted the picture of Mr and Mrs right into our psyche (mind). Every girl and boys dreams of Mr Right and Mrs right who will fit into their world like a square peg in a square hole.

After discussing with a lot of females and males, I realise, that the Mr Right and Mrs right search is not necessarily the search for someone that will fit into the searcher's life or world, but most times , it's the search for some one that can compliment.

The qualities that defines a Mr Right differs from person to person after all, one lady's meat is another lady's allergy. The criteria for defining a Mr Right or Mrs right is psychologically due to the upbringing (home)  and the  environment (his or her community).
I rephrase: "one girl's tout is another girls Prince Charming"

So we can now group people's perspective of Mr and Mrs right into two:

• A woman or a man that has same dispositions, character, upbringing, education, religion, social standard etc as you. Or
• Someone who possess what the searcher is in need of or lacks. For example: height, wealth, complexion,  education, fame etc. 

I have come across very fare complexioned girls who clearly made their dislike for dark complexion men known. They can never see them selves happy with someone who is opposite what they are. In education wealth and skin colour. 

Who is Mr and Mrs right?:

He is someone that makes you feel fulfilled and happy. Someone you can journey the ends of the earth  for and he will also do likewise. Some one who is prepared to genuinely live with you and be with you. But a lot of people later get disappointed even after their Mr or Mrs right is delivered in shining packages. 

People later discovers that the illusion of Mr and Mrs right being hundred percent perfect is but a mirage. Why? Because they just discovered that their Mr and Mrs right has some baggage, weakness and shortcomings too bad to condole.

Is it actually too big to condole? The answer is no,  but our disappointment and shocked makes us quit on the right man instead of helping them to grow a new and better stem.

A soon to be married man said to me: "Sir two heads are better than one, they have double reward"

Ecclesiastes  4:9  Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

This is true if it is actually two head and not half-half head. A pair of one has to come together to form two not halves because it is two pairs of half (four halves) that gives two.  That scripture simply means two whole spouse are better together that one (half head plus half head).

With my little experience and walk with people, I have come to realise that most people are fully qualified as one or whole when it comes to physical  body structure. but in the issue of life and matters of positive ramification growth, they are either an half, quarter, or a big minus.

Note
Your happy ever after is as a result of how well you have worked on your self to be that woman worthy of a man (Mr right), who has also worked on himself. Knowing that a boat is only kept afloat by those who have learnt to sail.

This is the reason for a lot of short term relationship. Someone you know, maybe a family member. Calls you up and say: have found the one (joyfully screening), he is a real gentleman, he took me on a tour, cares about my feelings and is always looking to pacify them. He is God fearing and respects the women,  He always has a sexy way with words, he is a charmer!

Two months into their marriage or relationship, he or she calls back saying: "can I stay at your place for some time until I sort things out? you are like "what happen, what about your husband?" "it was all a lie. I made a mistake OK." Then she will complain about all weakness that are now appearing but not appealing. How funny, you saw his strength and you married him, saw his weaken and you took to your heels.

Singles think singlehood is a time to goof around, party, get drunk and jump from one bed to another (sex). They make little or no positive impart on their mind. Am not talking about the impart of a university degree because statistics has it that  the educated are also going through the trauma of divorce.

This is because we have this demented mind set that Mr and Mrs right is not human rather he or she is an angel. We end up placing them on that pedestal, and later when their humanity starts to bleed through, we quit as though we are exceptional.

We also have this mentality that relationship with a man or woman will make thing better for us. that is, will fix what we are going through. We look at people with spouses and we conclude that spousal is the root of his or her happiness. Then we jump on the next train to happy never after. 

We forget,  that what ever comfort we think we saw in the couple we looked at, is all work upon work.  Every couple no matter how shipshape their relationship is,  also has times that storms rocks their boat. Because they have done their due diligence in their singlehood, they  find a middle ground where both of their  baggage becomes easy to condole and your partner actually becomes an angel.

Just maybe his money was what made you qualify him as Mr Right and at the end of the day, you realised he is as cold as a corpse or he is very physically abusive. No matter how wealthy, caring a fool is, a fool is a fool. Folly is psychological.

What is the real or appropriate definition of Mr and Mrs right?

He or she is someone you can live with, someone you can condole his or her excesses. This is what makes them-right for you verse versa.
*before that person comes, work on your self so as not to lose them with your unpruned dispositions.*

Please follow my next blog as I look at the dogma: "he that findeth a wife finds a good thing"

By I. Macpherson 

MAMA'S RAGS

MAMA'S RAGS MADE SUCCESS PATH

composure of her hearty tames. "My children am protecting". She says. With medicinal tears mama wipes my face clear and When to sickness I fell,

At night her eyes sleeps while her heart. opens to hear my voice knock with screams

All her clothes turning old, and on her palms are imprinted scars of toils and horrible days. she has survived. first for her siblings now for her kids.

Though so young, mama ages fast like time on a happy day she sprints in old looks.

She has made sacrifices that no one should. She bears a cross whose Glory doesn't presently show.

Even though in the eyes of neighbours, she appears low, In her never expensive clothes. Her investment must not fail, to her it must avail Priestly robes Mama's rags made success path.

Even thought light tarries and the only one she see is deep down within. Mama keeps care till day dark. When the battles of life appear? Their death I will gladly bear. Fighting with diabetes, Hypertension became the last diagnosis. Treatment to her was too expensive for she has to feed her infants belly

and structure their destiny.

Mama's rags finally paved success

By I. MACPHERSON.

READING THROUGH YOUR PASTOR'S EYES AND MIND

READING THROUGH YOUR PASTOR'S EYES AND MEDITATING THROUGH HIS MIND

Study to shew thyself approved. unto. God, a workman that needeth not to be. ashamed but rightly dividing the word of truth. 
2 Timothy  2:15

For as long as I can remember, I have been under the hold of: reading the Bible through a pastors eyes and understanding passed down every service and meditating on God's word with their mind. You will best understand what I mean by this statement as we proceed.

Have not realised that there are some question you are asked and the only answer you can give is what you where told and not what the Bible says? And if you go to the scriptures to defend it, all the scriptures you will lay your hands on to use will be scriptures you will have to bend to suite the purpose you picked it? 

The word of God today is now read as religious routine. 90 percent of Christians don't read the word the way it should be read. According to Paul , in 2 Timothy, it is the word (Jesus) that presents us approved unto God. 

Why ask Timothy to study? No matter what heresy is being practised,  the word of God is the standard at which all truth is proven. 

But funny enough,  Christian are not actually finding what they should find in the word. Because this system has unconsciously conditioned them into reading the Bible to prove their pastors right. Meditate on the scripture through their pastors point of view. 

I confronted a brother who was never absent in church but never present for the word.  This guy heard series of messages on how God can change your finances through practical service in the place of worship.
With this mind set, this young man goes to the house of worship (church)  and stays in the rest room (bathroom), attending to people using the bathroom from the service inception to close.
I asked him: "Sir what is the essence of coming if you didn't hear the word of Christ which I know nowadays has diminished".

These Christians will never leave darkness because every verse taken out of context is written down by them and they follow suit when they get to their homes. Have heard pastors quote Bible verses which I later found out was taken out of context.

Because it sounded good and excited you, doesn't make it true. It's a pity that Christian are now excitement junky and sudden wealth (packaged as God's favour) fanatics.

How can an average Christian seek God genuinely at home when the pastor's view of the scripture is written down and swallowed more as pills in their houses. And have heard some of them say: "my pastor can never be wrong". What a loyalty to a mare man. And God said: "my glory will I not share with any man". Be wise because we have indirectly and unknowingly to us put God to the side.

There is a woman who doesn't have food to eat and also give her kids but she has been indoctrinated that God needs her last 300 hundred naira in order to look her direction for help.  Jesus said:

Matthew  11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  11:29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

I realised this circle when I found out that when you have been submerge into this indoctrination, you will always have preconceived notions, a purview within which that scripture we are reading is being understood. We hear based on what we have have been told as perfectly indoctrinated, religious persons.

For example, the scriptures  

Romans  10:17  So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

That verse have always been taught to us in the light that every time you read the word of God faith comes. Contrariwise, when I started my Whatsapp group, an issue occurred which had me thinking. 

There was a young man who said in one of our discussion that he is an atheist. He rubbished a lot of Christian practices and beliefs. As Christians, we tried to debunk what he was saying.

Then someone opined that if he had been going to church, and read the word, he would have understood (rom10:17).

This young man immediately replied: "I was born and bred in church". Mmmmmmm

After the chat I wondered what was his issues then this same verse Romans 10:17 came to mind and I realise I had been Privilege by the spirit before that time to actual know what that place was saying against the popular explanation. 

That verse never said faith cometh by hearing the word of God because there are people who have heard it and are worse than before they heard it.  Rather the verse says:

Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God.

If the underlined portion is what is in your Bible,  then it means faith cometh by what the word of God communicates to an individual per time. That is what it mean to hear by.  In simple terms,  faith cometh by what the scriptures you read ministers to you. So it is evident that there is "a hearing by the word".

There is a lot God wants to show and lead you into please don't rob your self of such opportunity.

Lastly, I heard a pastor say during a Sunday service to his members which I once was. " any Christian who doesn't engage in tithe paying is going to hell". I kid you not, he said it. I was shocked when I heard it.

Imagine the level of apostasy taught in the church. 

Imagine those Christian reading the word of God in that evil light imprinted in their mind. 

An American guy communicated with me saying he had to leave the church for some years to detox from all toxicity and apostasy that has been passed down to him.

A pastor told me that to dedicate a child you must come with something that has life. I was shocked. But his church is practicing it.

Stop reading the scriptures to prove your pastor right or wrong. Shot down down on what are taught and as you read and find out truths that has been long shrouded in deception,  you will start to connect all the dots of omissions and inclusions of men in the preaching you hear. 

I leave you with this powerful scripture 

Matthew  24:5  For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many.  

Matthew  24:11  And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many.

Thank you.